Biblical Self-esteem, Session 10
Title: Discipline, Punishment and Self-esteem, Part 1
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Intro
     1.   concluding sessions of series on biblical self-esteem
     2.   Biblical self-esteem is viewing yourself as God sees you; no more and no less.
     3.   Three basic emotional needs influence your self-esteem:
               a.   belonging, worthiness and competence.
               b.   all are fulfilled in your relationship with God; if not, your relationship needs
          attention!
     4.   today: Discipline, punishment and self-esteem

Discipline and punishment in scripture
     1.   Definitions
               a.   discipline: training that corrects, molds or perfects; may include punishment.
               b.   punishment: suffering, pain or loss that serves as retribution; penalty for offense
     2.   Scriptural perspective of punishment
               a.   Jesus’ parable: imprisonment for debt to master & crime against a peer. Mt
          18:34 “In anger his master turned him over to the jailers until he should pay
          back all he owed.”
               b.   Jesus’ parables: banishment for refusal to live by standards.
                         i.   Mt 8:12 “But the subjects of the kingdom will be thrown outside, into
               the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
                         ii.  Mt 22:13 “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot,
               and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping
               and gnashing of teeth.’”
                         iii. Mt 25:30 “And throw that worthless servant outside, into the darkness,
               where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
               c.   Jesus’ parable: beaten for refusal to do what is expected. Lk 12:47 “That
          servant who knows his master’s will and does not get ready or does not do what
          his master wants will be beaten with many blows.”
               d.   restitution
                         i.   Lk 19:8 “but Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, ‘Look, Lord!
               Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have
               cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the
               amount.’”
                         ii.  Jesus didn’t stop Zacchaeus; restitution possible evidence of salvation
                         iii. Lev 6:4 “When he thus sins and becomes guilty, he must return what he
               has stolen or taken by extortion, or what was entrusted to him, or the
               lost property he found.”
                         iv.  Pr 6:31 “Yet if he is caught, he must pay sevenfold (700%), though it
               costs him all the wealth of his house.”
                         v.   restitution is a clear OT principle, is not superseded in NT.
               e.   capital punishment
                         i.   Acts 5:5 “And when Ananias heard this, he fell down and died.”
                         ii.  Acts 12:23 “Immediately, because Herod did not give praise to God, an
               angel of the Lord struck him down, and he was eaten by worms and
               died.”
                         iii. Rom 13:4 “For he is God’s servant to do you good. But if you do
               wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword for nothing. He is
               God’s servant, an agent of wrath to bring punishment on the
               wrongdoer.” — capital punishment implied?
     3.   Scriptural perspective of discipline
               a.   Discipline should be motivated by love.
               b.   Deut 8:5 “Know then in your heart that as a man disciplines his son, so the
          Lord your God disciplines you.”
               c.   Ps 94:12 “Blessed is the man you discipline, O Lord, the man you teach from
          your law.”
               d.   Rev 3:19 “Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest and
          repent.”
               e.   Heb 12:10 “God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness.”
               f.   discipline relates to our sense of belonging; we belong, therefore we are
          disciplined.
               g.   discipline & punishment relate to our sense of worthiness:
                         i.   guilt tells us we’re unacceptable; reduces our sense of worthiness
                         ii.  discipline causes us to avoid actions which create guilt
                         iii. punishment relieves us of guilt

Discussion Questions
     1.   Does the New Testament teaching on forgiveness and grace nullify the Old Testament
     teaching on justice and punishment? Explain.
     2.   How does capital punishment relate to human dignity or worth?