Biblical Self-esteem, Session 7
Title: Sense of Worthiness, Part 2
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Intro
     1.   Sense of belonging
               a.   the need to be loved unconditionally, to feel accepted
               b.   the most basic emotional need
               c.   fully satisfied through relationship with God the Father
               d.   our response: forgiving and accepting others
     2.   Sense of worthiness
               a.   the need to feel acceptable, that you have value; self-respect
               b.   fully satisfied through relationship with God the Son

Our response
     1.   Do for others what Jesus does for us.
               a.   Jesus removes our guilt
                         i.   we can’t take away others’ guilt; only Jesus can
                         ii.  we can tell them about God’s removal of guilt; “Good News”
                         iii. most people believe God can’t/won’t forgive them.
               b.   Jesus works in our behalf
                         i.   our self-worth increases when others do things for us (unless we’re too
               proud)
                         ii.  Jesus intercedes with Father for us
                         iii. he watches over us, we receive his attention
     2.   Talk isn’t enough; believing isn’t enough
               a.   Jas 1:27 “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to
          look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being
          polluted by the world.”
                         i.   pure and faultless religion: look after orphans and widows
                         ii.  Greek word: to look upon, to care for, to exercise oversight
                         iii. “look after” means to stay in touch, take care of their needs, provide
               needed guidance.
               b.   Jas 2:15-17 “Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one
          of you says to him, ‘Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,’ but does
          nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by
          itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.”
                         i.   the generous attention we receive from God compels us to take care of
               others.
               c.   Acts 20:35 “In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we
          must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said, ‘It is
          more blessed to give than to receive.’”
                         i.   serving others increases our self-worth
               d.   Mt 25:40 “the King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of
          the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’”
                         i.   serving the King increases our self-worth.

Discussion Questions (small groups)
     1.   How does accountability relate to man’s worth?
               a.   — change groups —
     2.   Why do people think Christianity has a low view of man?
               a.   — change groups —
     3.   How do married couples’ role expectations affect each person’s self-worth? How can
     role expectations be clarified?